What do women secretly find very sexy in men?

So many women, so many tastes. But let's be honest, there are certain things we women generally find sexy in men. To unravel the mystery of our feminine thoughts a little, here's a list of universal attractions. Take advantage of it, gentlemen!

1. Fit but not too muscular

These days, it seems like the gym rules 90 percent of your life. But guys, take it easy, it doesn't have to be that extreme. Here's a tip: many women aren't looking for a pumped-up muscle man next to them in bed. Of course, it's nice to take good care of yourself and stay fit, but a little definition or subtle lines in your biceps or other muscles are more than enough. This way, you'll save a lot of money at the gym.

2. Well-groomed nails

You don't have to get a manicure right away, but extremely chewed-up stumps aren't ideal either. Pamper your hands with a good hand cream and trim your nails neatly with nail clippers. Nail biting is a thing of the past, okay?

3. Reading

Knowledge is power, a wise man once said. Reading is instant sex appeal, we say. A man with a good book: it doesn't get any better than that. There's a reason why there are websites like "Hot Guys Reading." Whether you're reading a novel by Arthur Japin or Zlatan Ibrahimovic's autobiography, it doesn't matter to us. As long as you can talk passionately about the book when we ask what you're reading.

4. Glasses

Thankfully, glasses are no longer a stuffy or dull accessory. And rightly so, because they add a touch of sexiness and mystery to your look. Choose a stylish frame and say goodbye to those contact lenses. Don't need glasses? No problem, just wear a fake one this summer, because it won't affect the sexiness at all.

5. Chillin' in your clothes

Show your relaxed side in your sweatpants. Netflix and chilling together calls for a casual outfit. That makes us women weak in the knees.

6. A neat blouse or shirt

The opposite of relaxing in your clothes. Looking neat and tidy is always a good idea, and a blouse is the easiest way to do that. Iron it, of course, and preferably in white.

7. Eye contact and a smile

It can be that simple, gentlemen.

8. A nice smell

This one could easily have been number one. Do you have a signature fragrance that the woman in your life recognizes you by? If not, get one soon. Scents evoke so much in our subconscious, from memories to emotions. Your scent will always remind her of you. But: don't spray too much. It's lovely to catch a whiff when she hugs you, but it's less charming if the cologne lingers like a heavy haze on her clothes. Otherwise, she'll smell like a man all day. Marking your territory? Yes, indeed.

9. A full beard, three-day beard or freshly shaved

In 2025, the idea seems to be that every man should have a beard. But wait a minute! For us women, that's definitely not the reality. There are so many women, and at least as many tastes. It's like men's preference for breasts or buttocks. There are also women who prefer a clean-shaven face to a full beard. Ultimately, it doesn't really matter, as long as you take good care of it.

10. If you cook for us

Don't pretend to be Gordon Ramsay, but make sure you master the basics in the kitchen. We promise she'll text all her friends the minute you tell her you're cooking for her. And honestly, it's actually quite cute when something goes a little wrong. Just a little bit, mind you. If you really can't cook, you're only going to end up shooting yourself in the foot, both literally and figuratively.

11. If you hold the door open for us or let us go first

Chivalry isn't dead. We women love romance. Even if she says so adamantly, every woman enjoys feeling feminine and special. And it doesn't have to cost anything; simply holding the door open for her and smiling kindly can be enough.

12. Scars

For a bold touch. Rawr! Every scar has its own story, even if it means bumping into the edge of a table ten times in the same spot. In the bizarre world of alternative facts, Barbie trades her Ken for Action Man, just saying.