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4 Ways to Take Your Blowjob to the Next Level

When it comes to giving blowjobs, you're pretty good at it. You love hearing your partner sigh with pleasure as your wet lips wrap around their penis. How do you turn that light sigh of pleasure into a loud moan? A moan that makes their head fall back and their back arch toward your mouth? How do you make your partner remember this blowjob and forget all the others they've ever had?

We've got Slutty Girl tips to spice up your foreplay and guarantee your partner will worship your feet. Who knows, maybe you'll even be in the mood for a facial!

 

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1. Use a vibrator

You know how good vibrating toys feel in your most intimate places, but have you ever used them on your partner? Tonight, bring out the vibrating toys while you're orally pleasing your partner with their penis in your mouth. Hold a vibrating toy against the outside of your cheek, and it feels like your mouth is vibrating around their penis.

Then, slide the vibrating toy down to the family jewels and hold it there while you continue doing what's best for their penis: sucking. You can, of course, use any body-safe toy that vibrates like a bullet vibrator, or our all-time favorite, the iconic Magic Wand, which even comes in a mini Magic Wand, perfect for sensitive play! A small toy is small enough to hold in one hand, but has just the right amount of power to make their toes curl.

You can even try a male sex toy to surprise your penis-owning partner. Or try an intimate couples toy for simultaneous pleasure.

A woman laying on her back on a bed in her bra and underwear while a man holds a small vibrator over her stomach.

 

2. Use breath strips

There's a little product you can find in the personal hygiene aisle of your local supermarket that can make your partner's toes curl faster than almost anything else... breath strips.

Keep breath strips on your nightstand, because if you use them while giving your partner oral sex, you'll both want to use them more often in bed. Place a breath strip on your tongue, let it melt just enough where it's pressed against your tongue, and then slide it into his penis. This will create a slight tingling sensation, and the cold of the strip combined with your warm breath will make his hips arch forward, begging you not to stop anytime soon.

Flavored sensual sprays and delicious oral lubricants can also add a tasty touch to your oral session.

Woman sucking on a lollipop with red lips.

 

3. Make your blowjob pop

Once you've talked with your partner and you're ready, put a small amount of popping candy in your mouth just before you insert your partner's private parts. Starting with a small amount is ideal because then your partner knows what to expect and whether that's the perfect amount of popping candy or if they want more, since you can always put more popping candy in your mouth. Keep in mind that this candy blowjob can get a little messy, but then again, aren't the best blowjobs messy?

Let your partner know before you stuff the pop rocks to the rim of your mouth, followed by their penis. While they'll probably enjoy it, it can be unsettling if they find out after feeling the popping candy in their most intimate area. We recommend BJ Blast Oral Sex Candy for this technique!

 

A woman holding an ice cube between her lips.

4. How to Suck a Dick with Ice

Consult with your partner again before giving oral sex with ice, as not everyone knows how their body reacts to cold temperatures. Once they're on board, grab a small cup of ice and suck on it. Then spit it back into the cup and place your mouth around their penis. Your mouth will go from cold to warm, right around their penis.

If you're sure your partner enjoys the cold sensation, you can do two more things with ice and a blowjob. First, suck on the ice cube for as long as you can to make it even colder. You can also crush small pieces of ice in your mouth before putting it in your partner's mouth. Second, if you leave ice cubes in your mouth near their penis, the cold sensation will last even longer, until the ice melts and your mouth and the water become warm.

 

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By incorporating these sexy tips from HappyToys into your head, your blowjob skills will definitely go from good to exceptional! Your partner will forget every other blowjob they've ever had because you've shown them how much pleasure a great blowjob can bring.

Enjoy the moments when your partner throws his or her head back and lets out a loud moan as you pleasure him or her more than ever before, just by using your mouth and a few small tools.

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