A foot fetish is one of the most common kinky things. Simply put, many people love feet! But how can you cater to this for your foot-loving partner? You've given a blowjob, but how do you give a "footjob"?
I've personally had two partners who loved my feet and were eager to experience a footjob. But I had absolutely no idea what I was doing (at first). Fortunately, I had a partner who was willing to teach me what to do with my feet and toes for their, and my, pleasure.
Here are the kinky footjob tips to get your partner off every time, using just your feet!
1. Lubricate, lubricate, and lubricate again!
I know this seems like a strange tip to use as your first foot job tip, but I swear, it's very important.
When a sensitive body part touches another's, friction occurs. Trust me, friction on your feet doesn't feel good (let alone friction on your partner's penis).
I recommend a water-based lubricant because it lasts a long time without making your feet sticky and allows your feet to glide over your partner's penis. Apply it liberally to the area where the friction will occur. The lubricant will make the experience much more pleasant for both of you.
2. Keep your feet together
The easiest and best footjob position is one where you keep your feet together.
My husband always seems to enjoy it when I place his penis in the arch of my foot, where my toes and the balls of my feet meet. There are other ways to give a footjob, but this one gets a lot of toe wiggling, which is pleasurable and a beautiful sight to behold.
You can even use your soles and toes to cup your partner's balls for added sensation and pleasure.
3. Don't forget the toe wiggling
Wiggle your toes is a sure way to get your foot-loving partner going.
The partners I've been with who loved feet loved it when I wiggled my toes during a footjob.
As you move your feet over their penis, wiggle your toes at different speeds, pressures, and intensities. It gives them a different sensation and some extra visual stimulation!
4. Move your legs too
A good footjob is all about how you move your legs. Moving your legs from your hips instead of your knees gives you a better range of motion and allows you to last longer.
Try different speeds and tempos until you find what works for both of you. You'll get tired, but not as quickly as if you're moving from your hips.
The technique can be a bit tricky until you get used to the movements. Try practicing on your favorite wand vibrator or a more lifelike dildo to get the tempo and rhythm right before bringing it into the bedroom.
5. If you get tired, let your partner help you
If you get tired of moving your legs this way (I do quite often), have your partner lend a hand. They can hold your feet and control the movement, pressure, and pace.
This is also a great way to start, allowing them to show you what they like. There's something incredibly sexy about watching their muscles flex as he goes wild on your feet. If you let them, they can go at their own pace!
If you're a little nervous about starting this kind of play with your partner for the first time, why not send them a sensual photo of their feet to gauge their interest? You'll be able to see right away if your partner likes the idea!
If you find this a new, pleasurable outlet, you could even try selling foot photos on Feet Finder. You'll be surprised at how creative and sensual the experience can be!
As with all forms of play, communication is key. Simply ask them what they like, or have them show you. Your partner should always extend the same courtesy to you. Have fun and enjoy those toes and soles!
