Teasing your man doesn't always mean touching him or sending nude photos. Sure, you might think a few risqué photos will do the trick, but sometimes the most effective form of flirting is the buildup. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just starting to date, knowing how to pique his curiosity without making physical contact can make things a lot more exciting.

Here are some unexpected, non-physical ways to keep him on his toes.

Send him a mysterious message

If you think about texting him in the middle of the day while he's at work, or even on the weekend, a simple "I was just thinking about you..." without any further explanation will be enough to keep him on edge all day long.

Leave a little memory

If you're with him and want him to think of you even after you've gone, leave your hair tie on his desk—or wear his hoodie and give it back just before you leave so he can smell your perfume. These little "forgotten" things will haunt him long after you've left.

Challenge him to a game

Whether it's a quiz, poker, or Mario Kart, showing off your competitive side is fun – and undeniably appealing. Just be careful not to overdo it, or you might provoke a fight.

Share a joke that only you guys will get at the perfect time

Nothing bonds two people faster than laughing together about something only the two of you understand.

Give him a playful nickname

Something crazy or unexpected will make him feel special (and make him curious about what you'll call him next). If you're in a long-term relationship, try something different every now and then to keep things interesting.

Send a short voice message

It doesn't always have to be about texting. If you're not together, you can send a voice message like, "Do you miss me yet?" or "Guess what I'm thinking?" That can be much more engaging than a long text.

Keep your plans a little vague

"I can't wait until Friday... you'll see." Building suspense is the ultimate way to tease him.

Play on his food cravings

Send a picture of his favorite snack or dessert with the caption "I was thinking of you," because we all know the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

Flirt with your silence

Sometimes it builds tension (and makes your answer more impact) if you leave it on 'read' a little longer than normal.

Send him a meme he doesn't expect

If you're always scrolling through Instagram or TikTok, send him a meme to show off your sense of humor. The crazier or more personal the meme, the better.

Share a 'what if' scenario

Thinking of something to talk about on your date? A "what if" scenario like "What if we drop everything and fly somewhere?" can lead to interesting conversations. Plus, playful fantasy is irresistible.

Flirt about something mundane

"Buying toothpaste – I wish you were here to help me choose a flavor." It's unexpected and makes even the ordinary flirty.

Pretend you're not impressed

“I don't know... I think I could beat you at that.” A hint of mock arrogance dares him to prove you wrong.

End the evening with a cliffhanger

"Sleep tight... I'll tell you the rest tomorrow." Nothing makes him think like a half-kept secret.