If you're not up on Broad City or not into porn, you might not know that pegging is a huge trend right now.
Pegging typically involves a self-identified woman anally penetrating a self-identified man with a strap-on dildo, although people of any gender can call using a strap-on on a receptive partner pegging. I love this trend because it means heterosexual cis men are outgrowing the idea that anything close to their butt makes them gay.
Hooray for people who feel comfortable with their bodies and allow themselves to enjoy themselves!
Why Pegging Feels Good
Welcome to the fastest anatomy lesson ever! Just like women have a G-spot, men have a "P-spot," and guess where it is? What, what, it's in the butt!
The prostate gland, located about two inches inside the anus at the front, is responsible for making semen creamy and is also very pleasurable. Prostate stimulation can even be called "milking" the prostate.
How to Peg a Man (or a Receptive Partner of Any Gender)
Pegging is usually done with a strap-on and a dildo, but it can also be done with an anal toy—harness or not. I have a harness and combined it with a realistic (but rather thin) dildo.
Make sure you go through all the usual warm-up steps for the best anal sex. Make sure your partner is ready, and don't make the dildo the first thing inserted! Have your partner go to the toilet and perhaps use an enema or anal douche – this is important! It will make them more comfortable and likely save you some mess.
When you're ready to play, use one finger, then two, and then work your way up to a toy. Be sure to use plenty of lubricant, and when your partner feels ready, add some extra lubricant to the dildo and to them. Stand behind your partner and have them bend over and spread their buttocks. With your hand (even if you're wearing a harness), guide the dildo slowly but smoothly into their ass. Have them take deep breaths—especially if it's a new sensation for them. Ask them what they want and give them more, deeper, or faster if they tell you.
My honest review of Pegging
My partner really enjoyed being pegged, and it's always satisfying to make your partner happy. Even if it were just for their pleasure, I would definitely try pegging again.
From my own experience, I'd say it's important to prepare beforehand. Make sure your partner has taken care of themselves down there before you dive in, as that can make the experience even more daunting than if everything was clean.
I'd also recommend having some sort of insertable dildo or butt plug for yourself – unlike a real penis, there's no immediate pleasure in being the one doing the pegging.
There's definitely a bit of a learning curve, as someone who doesn't have a penis and therefore has no idea how to control one. Maneuvering and diving in and out can take some practice, even with a well-fitting harness, but that can be part of the fun!
