Normally, taking your phone to bed isn't the best way to create a sexy moment, but it can be done if there's a thrilling audiobook or short story to listen to together! Try an app with erotic short stories or highlight a few of the most exciting scenes from a romantic audiobook and see what inspires a book club for two.

Has it been a while since you've enjoyed some lovemaking at night? Make a change by resolving to have at least one romantic daytime date this February! Take a day off work, drop the kids off at school, and enjoy five or six hours of playful time during the day.

For couples juggling work, children, and household chores, it can be difficult to prioritize sex. It's all too easy for a week without sex to turn into two, then three, and... well, that's how "dry spells" develop. According to researchers, the ideal frequency for couples to stay connected and satisfied with their sex life is once a week. So, resolving to have a regular sex date (e.g., every Saturday night) might be a smart move for 2026!

One of the advantages of being in a committed relationship with a loving partner is that you naturally figure out your sex life. There's no longer any secret about what works and which positions are guaranteed to lead to an orgasm. While we'd never advocate trying out familiar positions, it's simply fun to try new ones! New things can be exciting, and who knows, you might even discover a new favorite.

There's nothing quite like feeling the fresh air on parts of your body that normally don't get sunlight! A fun idea for a sexy resolution would be some kissing (or more, for the daredevils) outdoors. Hiking, camping, a secluded lake—there are plenty of options!

One of the benefits of a healthy, long-term relationship is that there's been time to build trust. With a solid foundation of trust, it can be fun to push boundaries, for example, with blindfolds or light bondage. A resolution to experiment with sex that goes beyond the typical version could be a good goal for 2026.

The resolution for July is simple: go to a sex shop together or find a new toy online (or a first toy for couples who haven't yet incorporated such play into their routine)! Discovering which toy seems most fun is an easy way to start a conversation about what feels good and what each of you would like to explore further, which is a great way to strengthen your bond.

Remember back in high school, we could kiss for hours? While we don't miss the dry lips and the burning whiskers on our chins, it's still nice to slow things down a bit and not get to the heart of the matter right away. My August resolution: set aside at least 30 minutes a week to do nothing but kiss.

September is a fantastic month to delve into books and learn more about how people interact with sex. We recommend a book like "Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life" by Emily Nagoski to learn more about how women experience desire and spark interesting conversations.

If there's ever a perfect month to try your hand at roleplaying with some adult costumes, it's October. Whether you're looking to play the role of a naughty teacher, a sexy nurse, or something a little more exotic (we won't judge you!), embrace the playful sensuality of roleplay this month.

One of the most alluring things we have is our imagination. Plan to share a secret fantasy with your partner this November. There's no obligation to actually act on it, but simply sharing it can increase intimacy. For those who are a bit shy, texting is also fine instead of discussing it in person!

For the very last year, make a resolution to give your bedroom a sexy touch. Think beautiful, high-quality bedding, a sexy piece of furniture (yes, that's a real thing!), or keep it simple by adjusting the lighting (a dimmer switch is a great idea) or adding candles for mood lighting. Make your bedroom a sexy oasis, and good sex will follow!